Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Medical Surprise

"Open you mouth, say a",
"let me look at your nose",
"turn right i want to see your ear, now left".
"You have Flu, it will be there for a while, unfortunately there is no medication for it, you just take Crocin for three days and in spite of that if you still have fever then ill put you on antibiotics."
"ok doctor" was my reply, i was highly disappointed as i had taken in the pain to travel, for an hour during the peak hour in the evening, waited for my turn to come patiently and then going back without any prescription.I was disappointed, for not having any problem. I was disappointed that I was sent back without any prescription, all I had to was have crocin and wait and watch if the problem still persists.
Few days later, i was down with  pain in my lower abdomen, "ouch" it hurted me hard, oh it was late in the evening i didn't know what to, lazy to do anything i just took a pain killer and called up a friend, he asked me for the symptoms and suggested to get a sonography.
Sonography i thought my friend had gone mad, but hearing to a doctor was must so i pulled up myself and forced myself to go to the hospital. I was cursing myself all the while, went to the department, the nurse looked and me and enquired if i had eaten something in the morning, i said no, she asked me to go and have water and come and gave me a chit to pay in the billing section for the test. taking out the biggest of all the Gandhi notes 1000 and adding another 100 to it i wondered and prayed "bhagwan, iss test mein kuch to nikale nahi to barbad hue mere 1100 rupee". i went to the canteen got myself a bottle of water and forced myself to drink it down and went back. the nurse checked she said the water hasn't reached the bladder, wait for a while , walk a little and come back when i really wanted to pee. with a great effort and a restless hour of moving back and front i managed to finally create an adequate amount of pressure. and went to the room to get the testing done, when the doctor started examining, i was all anxious about what it was looking like, as it was my first sonography test. The doctor continued testing and at the end  said, there looks like a small stone in your left kidney. It is smaller in size nothing to worry much have good amount of water and itll be fine. Ah hearing that bought a smile to my face, ah at last my 1100 rupees was worth it.
Tragedy of life, when we have no ailments and still spend money we find it funny and not worth spending it, but when we  find a problem and have paid for it . sad but the truth. lets learn to change out thought and appreciate life when there is no problem and we even have to pay price to rule it out.

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

still single at 30

so you still single, dont you think you should get married now, your age is running what are you upto, etc etc etc are the questions raised to those who are still single at 30. Marriage is still a compulsion in the 21th century in our society. A women or man who ever it might be,it still is a compulsion and if not married early in age, they are over loaded with these questions. why is the society still so compulsive about marriage is beyond my understanding. if a girl or a guy not married for long its not the family who is worried the "SOCIETY" where we live has a problem.

The girl not married till late twenties or in her thirties  the society doesn't think oh she must not be finding a right partner, there thinking is oh there must be something wrong with the girl, she must be having an affair, her parents are reluctant, what is the society problem, the girl is independent, earning on her own, supporting her family, has her own ambition, if she has that then also its a pain to the society parents have given too much of a liberty to there kids.

For the other gender whom we think it would be much easier to stay single for, no its not a easy go for them either. the society doesn't spare them, oh the guy must be having a live in relationship with some girl, he must already be married not telling his parents, he must not be interested in girls. Many a time the guys are so over burdened by the family that they find the first opportunity to run abroad and be happy and visit less frequently.

What is the SOCIETIES problem with singles. Singles are happy, they don't worry  anyone, they are independent and helping and supportive to there friends and family. stop burdening them with these questions and let them breath.

Marriage is a no more a kids play let people have there way of life and a life partner of there choice. Relationships and marriages would last longer if it no more is they are forced to label them and be handled independently by individuals who want to get into it.