Tuesday, November 5, 2013

The New ERA Beauty Contest

When the whole world is fbing and the craze of modelling is at its peak, the new generation is heading to what no one knows of. Everyone wants to be popular, everyone wants to be eye candy, everyone wants to look fair and pretty, and thats how you are forgetting your orginality. The new era of fb, when every page wanting popularity conducts different beauty contest, good looking men, good looking women.

Social networking has increased the demands of photos, poses and photography with all editing, everyone wants to look perfect , every pic has to be nice and glossy, there is no derth of camera men either thanks to smart phones and dslrs increased demands. Do we know where are we heading to and what are we making out of the youngsters. The idea of social networking was to get in touch with old ones and for extroverts like me it was to meet new friends, we all have this new craze to show out what we did where we went what we wore how we looked. And our judgement about everyone has got limited to how they look in the pics, how well they dressed , how well there hair was. And what about someone who looked to simple, who looked dark who wasnt too well dressed they aint nice. We comment looking hot, looking cute, looking cool, and what some speco did he appeal u na they didnt catch your attention. have we forgotten that never judge someone by there looks and there clothes. We find comments hotty, naughty, sexy written by strangers are we looking forward for such cheap comments for ourselves or our family. We've got our family and near and dear people who might not like reading such comments on our pics. lets excise caution.


parents posting there new born kids pic for competition like baby of the month, cute baby contest, every kid is cute and good looking how can one judge its so disheartning to see grown up's with grey matter posting there little kids pics for such contests. lets learn to accept what we have what we are and we are gifted with it. 


Cutest couple contest how can a couple be juged about its cutness based on how they look in a pic, isnt it the compatibility that matters and not just there looks. I see contest like best love story, best love letter how do we guage someones feelings there love based on there words alone, when we have no idea about what the couples journey has been how theyve supported each othere in there thick and thin times. Some may be bad with words doesnt mean there journey is any bad or they dont love there partner like the one who could write or express well.lets enjoy social networking for the cause of socialness and not ones individuality. 


We all lock our pics in our profile who might be using them or misuse them anytime. did we notice uploading our pics on such forums are easily making them accessible for social misuse. once done we cannot do anything from crying and getting sympathy from others. its high time when i you and everyone understand this and get out of the whole system of putting our pictures on stake publically.




Monday, November 4, 2013

if its love its meant to stay

LOVE a very special word in everyones life. Everyone looks out for it, some are fortunate to find it easily and some have to wait a long to get it. however its made for all, some think love is perfect. love is not perfect, it does not have color, no age barrier, no specifications of gender, it does not have shape, it has no height , it has no weight. its just love. its a feeling which can surely come for anyone, and it stays. love is meant to stay if it doesnt that means it is not love. love is blind, it only come to stay forever. love is when the mother touches the kid when he is asleep, when mother is up all night to see her child when he has fever, love is when mother prays for her childs victory, love is when the father works hard to gift his child the first cycle, love is when the sibbling fight over of a cup of cake,love is when the fiance is all up night waiting for a call from him, love is when the wife fasts all day for her husbands long life. love is love we dont need any defination to prove it to say it its love. love who you have, for what they are. love will come you dont have to go and look for it. believe in the power of love and youll soon be gifted with it.