still single at 30

so you still single, dont you think you should get married now, your age is running what are you upto, etc etc etc are the questions raised to those who are still single at 30. Marriage is still a compulsion in the 21th century in our society. A women or man who ever it might be,it still is a compulsion and if not married early in age, they are over loaded with these questions. why is the society still so compulsive about marriage is beyond my understanding. if a girl or a guy not married for long its not the family who is worried the "SOCIETY" where we live has a problem.

The girl not married till late twenties or in her thirties  the society doesn't think oh she must not be finding a right partner, there thinking is oh there must be something wrong with the girl, she must be having an affair, her parents are reluctant, what is the society problem, the girl is independent, earning on her own, supporting her family, has her own ambition, if she has that then also its a pain to the society parents have given too much of a liberty to there kids.

For the other gender whom we think it would be much easier to stay single for, no its not a easy go for them either. the society doesn't spare them, oh the guy must be having a live in relationship with some girl, he must already be married not telling his parents, he must not be interested in girls. Many a time the guys are so over burdened by the family that they find the first opportunity to run abroad and be happy and visit less frequently.

What is the SOCIETIES problem with singles. Singles are happy, they don't worry  anyone, they are independent and helping and supportive to there friends and family. stop burdening them with these questions and let them breath.

Marriage is a no more a kids play let people have there way of life and a life partner of there choice. Relationships and marriages would last longer if it no more is they are forced to label them and be handled independently by individuals who want to get into it.